Have you ever thought about the question "am I a real friend?". "The best friend" is a title which is hard to get. Who is a real friend? How could you be a real friend? And which qualities should you have in order to be a "friend"?
In my opinion, the most important qualities which should be in a friend is supporting. Everyone needs somebody whom he could trust in hard conditions. I think that a real friend will recognize himself when you need him and will always be there for you . It is very important to have somebody you can turn to and trust. This quality in a person could affect his relationships with his surrounding for better or worse.
Another quality, which is not less important, is the ability to be honest with your friend. You should know to tell him the truth about things he asks or about his choises. You should know to tell him when you think he is wrong. I think that if you do not tell the truth it is such an hypocrisy and it could destroy the trust between you. In that way, it could affect your relationship.
To sum up, it is not really hard to be a real friend. All you have to do is put yourself in your friend's place and think how you would want him to behave. After all, it can only help you and affect positively your relationships with others and you can only gain from it.
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Daphna.
Saturday, September 4, 2010
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